5 tayie man: 1.hamishe labkhand mizanam va in baes mishe bish az had sadeo mehrabun be nazar biam. 2.gerye kardan ro dust daram na be khatere inke az bare ghame ensan mikahad,be khatere inke pas az geryidan chashmane ensan shafafiato jazabiate khasi miyabad. 3.dar sohbat kardan hengame khab yade tulayi daram bedin sharh ke hata 1bar dar zharfanaye khab az ja barkhaste be samte ahle manzel shetafte yek bye bye shik nemude be takhteman bazgashteim.bedune inke asare hoshyari dar ma namayan bashad. 4.kheili saburam,vali bazi vaghta anchenan aksolamali be etefaghat neshun midam ke badesh migam,man budam? na jedan man budam? 5.az neveshtan,rah raftan tu havaye baranio barfi,nushidane shir ghahveo nescafe besyar lezzat mibaram. 5taye badi:http://main_confessions.blogsspot.com/ رقصنده در باد

Be happy or get deppressed by a CRITICISM?

How do you react to a criticism? does it make you upset? Maybe my question seems a bit ridicullous,but believe me I don't wanna play the role of a psychologist.As far as I'm concered,majority of people around;cannot accept any kind of criticism and also hate it.Beside this,don't forget that we all love criticising others.Anyway! The point I wanna talk about is different.I don't say criticism is always nice and good,I say constructive criticism will bring you happiness,not at that time,perhaps later.Do you agree?No? Ok.Wait for continuation. You experience constructive criticism when you have a complete and exact knowledge of yourself. when you know your weak points and not try to hide them behind your thinkings,you will be more successful in realising constructive criticism.If you ask me about this,my newest answer is that I'll be happy by a constructive criticism.Ofcoarse is not the answer you can hear of me in 2 or 3 years ago.Do you know why? Now I know that if I face an honest and correct criticism,if the points that criticiser indicates about me holds true with what I know about myself,It shows that I wasn't negligent in knowing myself.Believe me it worths trying it.! But if you encounter with someone that you know he/she is nagging and he/she should look in the mirror first, breath deeply,draw your mind's attention to a funny or nicer subject.If it didn't work smile at the person.Again if he/she continue there is no alternative except a simple SHUT UP.! It is only for your dear friends,I don't suggest it if the criticisers are your parents.!